One thing that has accompanied development is the ever-increasing loneliness. Yeah! I know that we do socialize, we do throw big bashes, we meet new people everyday, but the warmth in our conversations, the security of feelings have been lost way back. I don’t wanna preach anything but my point simply is - ‘we are lonelier then ever’. We might have all the riches in the world, we might be in a top position is our firm but we aren’t able to find a single soul to tell our problems to. Thus, loneliness in its various physical, mental and social shapes is taking its toll and believe me that’s a threat to human society.
Louise Hawkley and John Cacioppo, two psychologists from the University of Chicago have been trying to solve the complex, inevitable web of loneliness, by studying both the superficial and underlying factors. As per the findings that were reported in this month’s ‘Current Directions in Psychological Science’ which is a journal of the Association for Psychological Science indicate that the problem snow balls into bigger issues with time. It increases, both by breadth and length. As per the studies, lonelier people not only face troubles with a greater helplessness but also are not easy to talk about them to anyone. They instead of seeking help in such conditions retire back to a shell life, which worsens their conditions.
The researchers studied college-aged group and also studied a group of people aged between 50 and 68 for a whole year. People reported almost the same number of stressful or demoralizing events but the lonely ones had more experiences of chronic stress as an aftermath. On a molecular level, the lonelier ones reported increased flow of epinephrine, a hormone in their bodies. The increased hormone level indicates that these people go through a lot of stress which leave them with heightened arousal conditions. Also, loneliness takes its toll proportional to the age factor. Loneliness can be one of the factors, which can make you look 60 when you have just crossed 45.
Another condition that the researchers observed was that lonelier people had lesser sleep and also what we may call ‘micro awakenings’. The word here means that the amount of the sleep of the lonelier people is almost equal to those who have social circles, but the quality of sleep is poorer. Yeah! Lonely people have a disturbed sleep which doesn’t let their body, mind and soul to relax. Thus, if you find anyone who you think is a loner, stretch out your hands to welcome him/her in your world.
Source: Physorg
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